yeah distant memory and horribly rusty technique. =/ Anyway, I dolled for the first time in probably a year. Yay.
"uhhh wait a minute... why did you sign that doll 'Ajay'?"
Thanks for asking, convenient asker of questions! Ajay is my new dolling name. A lot has changed over the past year and a bit, and I'm just not comfortable being Asha anymore.
"Isn't Ajay a boy's name?"
Yup! And I'd really love it if you used male pronouns for me if that's not too confusing. Sorry if it is - I confuse myself often enough, so I totally get it.
"So are you identifying as a guy now?"
Not quite. I'm identifying as genderqueer, but on the masculine end of the spectrum and I prefer male or neutral pronouns, but a surprising amount of people dislike using 'they' in the singular.
"Thats cos it's bad grammar."
I'm not going to get into that right now, convenient asker, but if anyone wants to discuss pronouns with me, my notes are open, and to make things easy (well, as easy as possible), 'he/him/his' is fine'.
"So do I need to update my links to your bases to say Ajay instead of Asha?"
Nope! That'd be cruel if I insisted on that. Just please refer to me as Ajay from now on, thanks.
"What happened to your website?"
It died. 'Cos money.
"Are you going to make a new one?"
Not at the moment, no.
"So.. are you back dolling... like.. for good now?"
Ehhhh, let's just see what happens, k?